in daily lives, i'm sure your parents sometimes get mad with you and say things that you do not wish to hear from them.maybe, at that moment, they are too tired or too upset or too..anything (whatever!). but actually, deep inside their heart, they do not mean it.
the question right now is, do parents have to say sorry to us? maybe between friends, it would be easier for them (and for us too), but when it comes between parents and child...there might be some difficulty. i have to admit that it is hard to say 'I'M SORRY'. like a song from elton john, 'sorry seems to be the hardest word'.
therefore, i think we should just forgive them, for what they have done to us all this while. they face a lot of difficulty when they raise us up. i admit that, it is easy to forgive but it is difficult to forget... and for parents.. i think they should not put a lot of pressure upon their child. and one more thing, do not put a lot of hope on your child's promises, especially when they are below 15 years old. based on my observations and experience, younger kids have higher tendancy to promise this and that to their parents. at that age, promise does not mean a lot to them. besides, they are not mumaiyyiz and baligh...
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